I have no idea how this stacks up to other versatile dudes but this is what it says.... == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 84% Primal (Hunter) 84% Dominant 77% Experimentalist 75% Daddy/Mommy 73% Submissive 65% Brat tamer 64% Brat 63% Vanilla 60% Rigger 57% Degrader 55% Master/Mistress 54% Ageplayer 53% Voyeur 49% Rope bunny 48% Primal (Prey) 48% Owner 45% Exhibitionist 38% Sadist 30% Non-monogamist 24% Degradee 17% Slave 9% Masochist 8% Pet 0% Boy/Girl… 続きを読む

So I'll start. Was on a camping trip last month with a trans chick I was seeing and we decided to spend the weekend camping at Big Bend Park over in Texas. We were with a group of 6 others (3 couples) who were all coworkers of hers and my girl (as far as I knew) was the only trans in the group. My girl's co-workers all know my girl was trans but not so sure if the other guys knew or not. Fast forward to the second night and everyone bedded down late that night after beers and shots by the campfire. I knew from dating trans chicks before that going to sleep without sex is sort of taboo as one… 続きを読む

So first off, I can’t honestly take credit for this as it was taught to me by an ex-girlfriend who was a MTF transgender. When I started down the path of dating and having encounters with CDs, sissies, and trans women, I was always the top and the aggressor. I had the occasion of being in summerlong relationship with a trans girl who was maybe a unicorn and encouraged me to get outside my comfort zone and try something different. In short, she wanted me to experience being penetrated (by her). It took me a while to warm up to this as I had tried it once before and didn’t really like it. That w… 続きを読む

I am curious....I see a lot of CDs who say in their profile that they are looking for a bisexual male and it sort of confuses me. Are straight guys not your thing? Are they too rough? Not respecting? Not open-minded? Are you afraid that straight men won't accept your gender? I personally don't see a straight man being with a trans or CD as either gay or bi. Some straights (like me) are simply into androgynous people and they don't want to be with either genetic males or females. Although my personal preference is a MTF trans woman living as a woman full-time, I have been with CDs and accept y… 続きを読む

This is about the one and only time I have been with a post-op trans woman. Based on this experience, I am definitely open to doing it again but meeting trans for dating is hard enough without further reducing the potential dating pool to post-ops only. It’s hard enough meeting pr-ops honestly. So we met on a dating site (not Hamster) and exchanged messages back and forth. She was from a city a few hours North. We ended up chatting a few times on Skype and doing a few video calls and there was definite chemistry. We eventually agreed on a meet-up and date in Phoenix the following week. We di… 続きを読む

So I have always been into outdoor stuff like camping, hunting, shooting. I occasionally drive over to Texas for RV and Outdoor shows and that’s where I met Tomasa who was a rep for an RV dealer. Tomasa was Mexican and originally from a smaller town in the Mexican state of Chihuahua. I’m a half breed myself being ½ Mexican by anestry but I inherited my white dad’s skin and tall height. This along with being able to speak conversational Spanish at least seems to give me an edge in the Hispanic trans dating game. By 2016, I had already been with a trans girl in a FWB kind of thing for a few mont… 続きを読む

So I thought I would post a story to give a little insight to who I am. I grew up near the U.S.-Mexico border and am ½ Mexican Hispanic and ½ Anglo (white). I was raised to appreciate both sides of my culture by a strong Mexican mom and a White dad who was a bad-ass but pretty much adored her and let her be the boss. I never learned Spanish fluently but enough to get by on the street and at school. I visited Nogales Senora across on the Mexican side on and off during my teen years. As a young adult, I was fearless and sometimes went across alone to visit the strip clubs, get a cheap lunch, o… 続きを読む

It was 2006 and I was a senior in high school. I had just turned 19 three months earlier and was about to graduate. I was a year older than most of my classmates due to being held over a grade in middle school. Me and my best bro Carlos were ready as hell to get out of school and tear up the world. We had played football together since our sophomore year and were pretty tight. All through the football season, we stayed at each other’s houses after school and slept over sometimes. His mom Lupita was a great cook and always had food for us whenever I came over which was often. One afternoon aro… 続きを読む

I was 27 and single and enjoying being free sort of the ‘sworn to fun loyal to non’ stage in young adulthood. I lived alone in a 1-bedroom apartment and loved working on my motorcycle which I kept in my living room. Most Friday nights for me were jamming out to music, enjoying a few beers and tinkering with the bike. I dated occasionally but nothing serious. There were a few cute single girls living in my apartment that I saw around and always said hi but never really pursued them. I had had a bad experience before with dating so close to home and knew better by now. One girl in particular I a… 続きを読む

First off, I am uncut myself and all of the trans and CDs I have been with were also uncut. Perhaps a throwback to the Mexican half of my heritage but the truth is, a lot of Latinos and therefore Latinas don't get circumcised at birth. Its never been an issue for me and I have no plans of ever removing my skin but in the context of male-trans-CD relationships, I have a few thoughts that I want to confirm. I am of the opinion that sex with an uncut partner is less painful and therefore, more enjoyable. This is because the penile membrane itself is encased in a layer of skin and this skin give… 続きを読む

I see all kinds of wild comments on trans and CD vids and some of the make me laugh. Of course this is a place where we can share our thoughts, fantasies, and opinions without judgement whether we have or haven't yet been able to act on them. A couple of truth's and realities are in order though. A lot of them would rather you just treat them like a woman and respect goes a long way when dating trans chicks. This doesn't mean that she isn't attracted to your 'maleness.' Quite the contrary as she is super attracted to everything male about men. This doesn't always mean that she is super excite… 続きを読む

So we have all seen the sexy vids of couples making love in all kinds of positions. In missionary and cowgirl passion especially, we tend to see vids where either the girl or the guy, grabs her cock and furiously jerks off while taking her man's cock. A couple of things I have learned over the years are that while some girls do like this, some others don't. The reasons for those who dont like it are varied, maybe she is a submissive and sees her cock as a hindrance to this. For others, they want to be seen as women and while they accept thier genitalia, they don't particularly want it touched… 続きを読む

So, as a man who has dated both women and trans women, I decided to pen a few thoughts on how I see gender and sexuality. For simplicity sake and although its not technically and anatomically correct, I will group CDs, Sissies, FemBoys, Shemales, Trannies all in the group trans women. Aside from one, I have only been with pre-operative trans women (i.e. a person who still has their penis). I am 33 and at age 24, had my first experience in Mexico with a with a trans. I didn't really want to at first but she was persistent and also sexy as hell. I knew her gender but had this phobia inside me t… 続きを読む

This is part 2 of my initial story “Houston Top Nights.” So it was around 7am Sunday morning and I woke up next to the gorgeous curvy Mexicana travesti I had spent the night with. She was hard asleep and being a morning person, I get most of my energy and creativity at first light. She was still fast asleep curled up in my arms her left hand wrapped around my cock where it had been all night long. I always get a huge boner first thing in the morning and I could feel mine growing in her now limp hand. I assessed the situation and how to proceed. Last night had not gone the way I planned but I… 続きを読む

It was 2004 and I was a senior in high school. I had just turned 19 three months earlier and was about to graduate. I was a year older than most of my classmates due to being held over a grade in middle school. Me and my best bro Carlos were ready as hell to get out of school and tear up the world. We had played football together since our sophomore year and were pretty tight. All through the football season, we stayed at each other’s houses after school and slept over sometimes. His mom Lupita was a great cook and always had food for us whenever I came over which was often. One afternoon aro… 続きを読む

This is a true story about a trip I took to Houston where I met a Mexican transgender woman. So I was in Houston for a trade show and had been messaging back and forth with a Latin trans woman I had met on FB a few weeks earlier. She was gorgeous in her photos and had been straight with me from the beginning about her gender. I let her know right off the bat that I was totally cool with it and respected trans women as just women so no issues with me. I flew in on a Friday afternoon and got a cheap room since the trip was on my own dime for pleasure. I contacted her and said I was in town an… 続きを読む

I took the only trip abroad in my life (aside from Mexico) to Thailand about 9 years ago and had a grand time..I had been with one trans by this time in my life but I considered it more of youthful experimentation at the time and went back to women. In Bangkok, I met a hot little female go-go dancer who taught me the meaning of ‘menthol magic’ and it was a mind-blowing experience. Basically she used ice water, warm tea, and a Halls Mentho-Lyptus lozenge while sucking me and it taught me about radical methods of oral gratification. The feeling was like nothing I had ever experienced. Basically… 続きを読む

So I was 26 and remember the exact month and day this happened. I suspect that everyone does as it seems to be such a watershed moment for everyone. By ‘everyone’ I am referring to trans girls and men who date them. She was Latin/Mexican and dated on and off for many months. I recall it began as friends and he telling me how hard it was for trans women to find suitable straight male partners due to the acceptance thing. First a primer on ‘generalities’ regarding Latina transgender females. I can only speak for Mexicans and Central Americans in general as they are the only trans women I have e… 続きを読む

I was 27 and single and enjoying being free sort of the ‘sworn to fun loyal to non’ stage in young adulthood. I lived alone in a 1-bedroom apartment and loved working on my motorcycle which I kept in my living room. Most Friday nights for me were jamming out to music, enjoying a few beers and tinkering with the bike. I dated occasionally but nothing serious. There were a few cute single girls living in my apartment that I saw around and always said hi but never really pursued them. I had had a bad experience before with dating so close to home and knew better by now. One girl in particular I a… 続きを読む

I dated Tomasa on and off for almost 2 years and our relationship was great honestly. I had no issues with dating and being seen publicly with her despite her appearance which was thick and sexy but also there was no doubt she was a trans woman. She was open and accepting of her gender so I needed to be as well. The sex was versatile and great and she hadn’t been on hormones for a long time. She had this routine for tucking her jewels when she was dressed up that I thought was so odd but I really liked her and just accepted it as part of living as a transgender. She had a thin elastic band th… 続きを読む